You’re Invited · Black Tie

Caroline & Geoff

Join us for an evening of music, dinner and dancing, as we celebrate Caroline’s 50th & Geoff’s continued mastery of the decades.

Saturday 10 October 2026

Lythe Hill Hotel & Spa · Surrey

Black Tie

We’ll also be raising a glass, and some funds, for Oesophagoose, in memory of Judy.

The Evening

How the night unfolds

Glad rags on. There will be dancing.

7:00Arrival and welcome drinksA glass of fizz on us
8:00Three-course dinnerTell us your dietary needs below and the kitchen will sort it
9:30Silent auction and a few words for Judy
10:00Live music and dancing
12:00CarriagesThe bar and the band wind down at midnight, house rules

There’s a cash bar in the room all night, so bring a card for anything after the welcome glass.

Raising a glass, and some funds

In memory of Judy

“This is our way of saying thank you, and helping others in her name.”

During the evening we’ll hold a silent auction for Oesophagoose, in recognition of the care and support they gave our Judy in the years before she died.

Whatever we raise goes to their work on oesophageal and gastric cancer: the awareness, and the research behind catching it earlier. Bid generously. Judy would have.

No presents, please. Your being there is the gift. If you’d like to mark the occasion, a donation to Oesophagoose in Judy’s memory would mean the world to us.

Stay the Night

Where to lay your head

A lot of you are travelling. Stay over, have a proper drink, and don’t think about the drive home. A few good options nearby, in and around Haslemere.

On site

Lythe Hill Hotel & Spa

The venue itself · Chiddingfold

Rooms are bookable directly with the hotel, with an after-hours residents’ bar once the party winds down. Stay here and you’re ten seconds from your bed when the band stops.

Book online 01428 651251
Haslemere · ~10 min

The Georgian, Coppa Club

High Street, Haslemere

A boutique hotel in the middle of town with rooms upstairs and the Coppa Club below, garden igloos and cocktails included. A lovely spot for a drink if you’re staying over.

Book online 01428 771027
Haslemere · ~10 min

Harper’s Steakhouse with Rooms

Lower Street, Haslemere

Comfortable rooms above a good steakhouse, right by Haslemere station. Easy, dog-friendly, and you can have dinner downstairs the night before.

Call to book · 01428 776560
~5 min

The Crown Inn

Chiddingfold village

A medieval coaching inn with eight lovely bedrooms, minutes from the venue. Only eight of them, so book early.

Book direct
~10 min

Old Thorns Hotel and Resort

Liphook

A bigger resort with a spa, golf and plenty of rooms. Good if you’re making a weekend of it or coming as a group.

Book online
Your own space

Self catering

Haslemere · Chiddingfold · around

If you’re a group, or you’d rather have your own kitchen and a lie-in, there’s a good choice of Airbnbs and holiday cottages nearby. Grab one early, October goes fast.

Browse Airbnb

Book your taxi home in advance, they vanish on a Saturday night. Local firms who know the Chiddingfold run:

Haslemere Independent Taxis

Saloons up to an 8-seater minibus. About 15 minutes to the venue.

01428 787222

Haslemere Alpha Taxis

24/7 local cabs, book ahead for the small hours.

07908 55 66 22

Haslemere Taxis

Local independent firm, happy to pre-book evening runs.

07525 247365

Silverline Taxis

Another Haslemere firm worth trying if the others are booked.

01428 260060

All Godalming Taxis

Covers Chiddingfold and the villages. Book by phone or online.

01483 608001
The Night Before

Friday evening drinks?

If you’re around the night before, come for a drink on the Friday evening. Nothing formal. Just a chance to see each other before the madness of Saturday. Drinks will be at Lythe Hill, so if you’re staying over you’ve barely any distance to go. We’ll confirm the time.

Say yes in your RSVP and we’ll send the details closer to the time.

The Silent Auction

Donate a lot

The auction is only as good as its lots. This is where you come in.

Got something worth bidding on? A weekend at your place, a case of good wine, tickets to something, a skill, a favour, that thing in the loft someone else would love. If it’ll tempt a bid, we want it. It all goes to Oesophagoose, in Judy’s name. There’s a box on the RSVP form to tell us.

Will you be there?

RSVP

We’d dearly love you to be there. An early yes helps us plan, so do let us know. It takes a minute.

You can tell us your party size, dietary needs, whether you’ll join us on the Friday, and offer an auction lot, all in one place.